Snakes, Big Tech, and Jewelry-Making With Arpana Rayamajhi
Jillian Scheinfeld
How's your day going? What's the energy in New York City like right now?
It's going pretty well. New York is amazing despite being hit hard. I can't complain but it's not been easy for everyone here.
I read in an interview you said, "I was always the daughter of my mother first." I infer that you were viewed as an extension of your family with every move you made. Can you elaborate on what it was like for you to be an adolescent girl growing up in Nepal?
Well, being a woman in Nepal be it a baby, adolescent or a woman can be tricky even if you are born fairly privileged. It’s spectrum and I fell on the luckier side because my family is very liberal with a mix of traditional values. I am now wise enough to say that some traditional values are important. Being from the city like Kathmandu is drastically different than being born in a small remote village. As I'm growing, I realize that I can only speak for myself and I cannot speak for other/ all women in Nepal because we all have such different lives. I also have to say that Nepali women (again depending on your karma) have it better than some of our neighbors. There are so many things to say about being a woman back home but to keep things short: in comparison, women in the US have it a lot easier over all.
You moved to NYC to pursue being an artist. We all go into the next phases of our lives with great expectations--and as planned, you did become an artist! What were some things you expected to happen and what did happen?
I am lucky. I've worked very hard and continue to do so—but it would mean nothing if Cooper Union didn't accept me, if people didn't support me, if writers didn't write about my work, if clients didn't buy my jewelry and if fashion companies and people in the industry didn't give me a chance. I still have a lot to accomplish and more growing to do, but I’ve realized that the dreams keep getting bigger and satisfaction isn't always a fleeting feeling. I didn't foresee social media taking over our lives as much and I didn't expect things would be as corporate as they are now. Technology companies and their influence are so pervasive in our society and lives, that sometimes I worry about our future. Maybe it's the fear of the unknown that's talking, but we cannot deny that social media has divided and polarized the US culture tremendously. I worry that the rest of the world is being affected by the media here more now than ever.